Tanya’s Midweek Crisis Letter- Is It Okay That I Cyber-Stalked My New Girlfriend?

Here is what this week's letter writer had to say:

"I randomly cyber-stalked the girl I've been seeing for a few months, and her Facebook, Twitter and Instagram pages all seemed pretty normal . . . at first. But when I dug a little deeper  I found more. There are a lot of pictures of her and her ex-boyfriend. He's really good-looking, and they're obviously still close. She was even in some posed pictures on a beach at his family reunion. I almost want to say something but then it'll be obvious that I was stalking her online. Is it weird that I'm jealous of her ex? Was it a bad idea for me to cyber-stalk her so early in our relationship?"

I think you need to relax. We all have pasts! She was close to him and her family...who cares! I haven't cleaned out my Facebook pictures in years...doesn't make a difference to me. That was my life then. She will probably delete pictures if she wants to or when shes ready. I think we all cyber-stalk and I don't think it's a big deal you did BUT I don't think you have much to complain about here. Relax and stop being insecure and have fun!