This is what this week's letter writer has to say:

"My sister just got engaged to the guy she's been dating for about two years, and I'm really happy for her. The one thing I'm not happy about is being her maid of honor. We don't have any other siblings, and naturally she asked me. So I feel I'm basically being forced to do it. The problem is I hate being a maid of honor. And honestly, I'm terrible at it. I had to do it once, and the whole experience was awful. I think my sister's best friend would be a much better choice. Can I tell my sister I don't want to be her maid of honor?  Is that rude?"

Want me to be honest? YUP...it's rude. That's my opinion. I don't have a sister. I have one brother who is ten years younger than me and lives across the country. I would LOVE to have a sister and a close family. I think you should feel honored that she chose YOU over a friend. Yes it is lots of work but it's also fun and it will make your sister and family happy. In this situation I think you should appreciate what you have and be your sister's maid of honor.

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