Communication, including how to argue, is something that you learn over time with a romantic partner. Bustle says that there are some things that you just never say in an argument with someone.

  • Everything you've ever been mad about because opening old wounds that you two have argued about in the past won't solve anything at all. In fact, that can only create more problems moving forward as your partner may have trouble trusting you or believing you when everything is "fine".
  • Threatening to cheat as we can probably agree that cheating is the worst thing you can do in a relationship. Making that kind of a threat is something that you really cannot come back from. At that point, you have broken your partner's trust.
  • Ultimatums are the worst. If you and your partner have the same disagreement over and over again, there may be something underlying that is not getting addressed. Instead of making an ultimatum, consider addressing the real issue with your partner to see if there is a better solution.

You never want to play dirty in an argument, no matter what the issue is that you and your partner are having. Learning how to fight with your partner is so important in any relationship.

(via Bustle)