Having a forgiving heart can be both a great quality to have as well as a terrible one because you're certainly at risk for getting hurt more often. Bustle made a list of some things that should just be unforgivable in any relationship.

  • Cheating with no remorse because if your partner is cheating on you without feeling remorseful and having constant guilt about their mistake, then they don't respect you, and you need to respect yourself and leave.
  • Constantly lying to you is unforgivable because how can you trust them or anything that they say to you? You might want to call it quits if you don't know what your partner is saying is true or not.
  • Controlling tendencies when it comes to where you can go, who you can see, what you can wear, or any other form of control is an unforgivable kind of behavior. You should always be able to do what you want, go where you wish to go and wear whatever it is that you want to wear. A partner should not have control over you.

If you feel as though you are not safe in a relationship, please find a way to get out of your relationship and find safety in your friends and family. You are what matters most.

(via Bustle)